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How can you be sure that you and your partner are a good match?
Being compatible is an extremely important part of any healthy long-term relationship that will be fulfilling for both of you. Compatibility doesn’t necessarily mean you have to like the same things but finding out your common interests is definitely a plus for most relationships and will help you connect.
Opposites can attract, and sometimes the small peculiarities about a person can come off as a plus instead of a negative. You just want to agree on the major things like morals and ethics, and views of the world.
Disagreeing on core values can play a major role in the decline of a long-term relationship, especially if you find out how a person feels about a subject matter that is important to you and who they truly are over a period of time.
First impressions are just that; you have an idea of who they are when you first meet them and you can assume they’re one way only to realize they are completely different. You will see that most of the time a person is much different inside compared to what they display to everyone externally. This isn’t a bad thing but the fact is compatibility cannot be determined at the very beginning because you simply don’t know who the person really is.
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If things haven’t been feeling right or the same maybe it’s time to take a deeper look at your relationship.
Use some of these questions to ask your partner and be sure to be totally open to their response, and not have any prejudgments. Don’t pressure anyone to answer, and on the other hand don’t get overly defensive or shut down when the conversation gets too much.
Being honest is absolutely key. Without honesty between two people there can be no relationship. If you don’t know who someone honestly is how can you honestly like them, let alone be compatible?
After asking these questions you should have a much better idea to see if you guys are a good fit!
1. What would you consider to be cheating?
2. What to you would be the biggest “deal-breaker” in a relationship?
3. What would be your ideal location for a honeymoon?
4. Would you rather go skydiving or bungee jumping?
5. Would you risk your own happiness for your own personal success?
6. Would you risk everything for the success of a relationship with someone you love?
7. If I broke your heart would you be able to forgive me if I had honest remorse?
8. What’s the length of time you’d take before dating again if we broke up?
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